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Best Man’s Speech Example



Best ManPushed for time and need to put together your best man speech?

Don’t worry here is an example that Ryan has written for you. All you need to do is to fill in the blanks.

When Tom asked me to be his best man, at first I was over the moon, firstly that he was going to marry the woman that he loves, and secondly that he had asked me to be his best man. Then a few pints later, it dawned on me. The speech. Choking on my beer at the realisation that I would have to stand up and talk in front of his family and closest friends, I started shaking and told him that I didn’t think that I could do it. Then he reassured me, he said, “all you have got to do is stand up, look a little idiotic, tell a few jokes and be confident.” Taking this on board, here I am.

Firstly a few thank-yous I have been asked to make. Firstly, to all who have helped in the service, and this lovely party. Whether you have brought food, or helped decorate this place, or just come to support the happy couple, thank you. Secondly to the bridesmaids, you have done a magnificent job helping the bride today, and you all look amazing, so a big thanks to you too. Finally Tom would like me to thank his beautiful new wife for turning up today. I saw him this morning when he was worrying, and it wasn’t a pretty sight. He has asked me to tell you how happy you have made him by becoming his wife, something that I am sure he will go into in more detail in his speech, but still, thank you.

Now, I have known Tom for X amount of years now. I know all his little habits and how annoying he can become after a few pints, just a little warning to you all there! But Tom has helped me through some hard times over the duration of our friendship. He has always been there and supported me, something that I am sure he will do for his beautiful new wife, Susan.

I have been asked to keep the story about Tom clean, and to try not to embarrass him too much. But there have been numerous times I have laughed until I cried at Tom. As some of you will know, he is always up for a laugh, and loves to live life to the max.

I remember when we were…( insert a funny event that really has happened to you and the groom).

Before Tom met Susan, he found it hard to talk to women. He could chat them up great, but when it came to more normal conversation, he found it harder. Until he met Susan that was. Susan has changed his life for the better. He has been happier, more energetic, easier to talk to and more responsible in the way he acts. These are just a few of the many ways Susan has had a positive effect on Tom. I am sure he knows many more that we don’t know about!

Somebody once told me that Love can easily be affected by physical appearance.

I am sure that when Susan first saw Tom, there were no confusions. Tom told me that before Susan he didn’t believe in love at first sight, but after meeting his now wife, that has all changed.

Finally, I would like to say another thank-you to everybody for coming and joining the newly married couple in their celebrations. And I am sure you will all agree they make a fantastic couple.

Ladies and Gentlemen, please all join me in a toast.

To the happy couple, long may their love last! Cheers!

21 June 2007
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Posted by Presentation Helper featured on the BBC - Presentation Helper — 22 August 2007 @ 10:41 am

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Posted by How to write a Best Man’s Speech - Presentation Helper — 22 August 2007 @ 3:53 pm

Thank you. Wedding Thursday! asked to be best man at lunch time today. mind in turmoil-blood pressure down ten points now, cheeers.

Posted by Steve Mercer — 22 September 2007 @ 9:16 pm

what a life saver, wedding on sat, was panicing, cheers for the A1 help :)

Posted by E.Stewart — 11 October 2007 @ 11:00 pm

thats just what i needed to sort my speach out. thanks very much.. just got to remenber it all now ha

Posted by ant mcnally — 26 October 2007 @ 2:59 pm

Thanks heaps, was asked half a week before the wedding, now from not knowing on what to do - to not a stress in the world. Thank you

Posted by S.Smith — 14 November 2007 @ 10:56 am

you are tha best, the most beatiful lady i have ever met!

Posted by Anonymous — 3 December 2007 @ 9:35 am

thank lots what a life saver

Posted by Anonymous — 8 December 2007 @ 9:20 pm

got my dads wedding a week today, still a lot of work to do to get the speech finished but this has really helped me to get started.
Thank You!

Posted by Matt Weeks — 22 December 2007 @ 1:35 pm

I can’t wait to be best man! :-D Thanks a lot for the heads up!

Posted by Kalahari Sniper — 28 December 2007 @ 10:11 am

Great! It would be helpful to know what sort of time-length the speech is supposed to be. We all speak at different speeds….don’t want it to be too long, nor too short, I guess…also- may want to mention the bride’s parents, especially if they are footing the bar bill!!!!

Posted by anon — 8 March 2008 @ 8:53 pm

budget speech - write your own instead… if the groom is a true friend.. he’s worth a bit of effort!!

Posted by mrk — 6 April 2008 @ 7:37 pm

I offered to help my husband with his speech and found this website extremely helpful. Many thanks.

Posted by Dawn Mellors — 11 June 2008 @ 3:58 pm

thanks you helped bolt together a lot of notes & ideas into a speech.

Posted by Brian — 17 June 2008 @ 10:18 pm

very helpful,alot of ideas and the structure of speech-up munster

Posted by dave — 25 June 2008 @ 10:29 pm

kife saver cheers

Posted by jk — 4 July 2008 @ 8:47 am

Thanks i had no clue what to say for my dads wedding… im only 16!

Posted by John Lindsay — 7 July 2008 @ 1:44 pm

Much appreciated, cheers mate!

Posted by P — 10 July 2008 @ 3:09 am

ive been asked to be best (wo)man for my best mate. so nervous about the speech but this has helped millions. thanks :)

Posted by Keira Finnegan — 14 July 2008 @ 1:31 am

That speech is absolutely rubbish, where’s the humour….that’s what a speech is meant to be all about, 2 out of 10

Posted by AM — 23 July 2008 @ 10:28 am

Extremely helpful many thanks.

Posted by Chris Wheeler — 26 July 2008 @ 7:32 pm

What i especially found helpfull was that the Groom i am the best man for is also called Tom!! Thanks

Posted by Michael Roberts — 28 July 2008 @ 12:42 pm

being best man for brother, leaving the speech till last moment wasnt a good idea. however your example was great cheers, all i need to do is fill in some funnies.

Posted by jim — 9 August 2008 @ 4:29 pm

Would have been really helpful, but once I’d edited out all the cheese, I’m back where I started - sorry.

Posted by John — 18 August 2008 @ 10:48 pm

sucha great site…. really helped me!! lifesaver!! wedding on friday!!

Posted by Anonymous — 20 August 2008 @ 2:23 pm

what happens if the groom isn’t called tom. I’m starting to panick now

Posted by Bill — 22 August 2008 @ 4:07 pm

I’ve been dreading not writing a best man speach till the last minute, had idea’s in my head but didnt know how to put it down on paper thanks this was great. wedding tommorow

Posted by Ross Thomas-Davies — 2 September 2008 @ 2:56 pm

all i can say is thank,s,,your example helped a nervous man do a very good best man speech(so it was said)

Posted by carlton edwards — 3 September 2008 @ 8:50 pm

You have helped to structure something that was all a blur in my head!

Thanks

Posted by Jordan — 10 September 2008 @ 8:18 pm

Wow! What a great example! I think the best way to nail a speech is to look at past examples and take what you like from them! Excellent speech!

Posted by Wedding Speech Examples — 2 October 2008 @ 11:14 pm

Ive been asked to make a speech on my bestfriend wedding Thanks for this lovely wedding speech samples,

Posted by Bobo — 14 October 2008 @ 10:45 am

Excellent site!,

Posted by Carley — 4 November 2008 @ 6:20 pm

useful info here.. thanks so much. one of my closest friens just asked me to be his best man… daunting!!!!

Posted by SH — 7 November 2008 @ 1:02 am

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